Women have affairs with married men for a variety of psychological reasons. Some women find it feeds their egos, whereas others are excited by the risk. Still other women enjoy the sex or the challenge involved. Unfortunately, when a woman deceives another woman, she is actually perpetuating mistrust among women in general. Few men leave their wives for the girlfriend, and even when they do, the woman is unsure if she can
Kamis, 10 November 2011
Asya (2000) mendefinisikan perselingkuhan (Selingkuh) diartikan sebagai perbuatan seorang suami (istri) dalam bentuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang di luar ikatan perkawinan yang kalau diketahui pasangan syah akan dinyatakan sebagai perbuatan menyakiti, mengkhianati, melanggar kesepakatan, di luar komitmen. Dengan kata lain selingkuh terkandung makna ketidakjujuran, ketidakpercayaan, ketidaksaling menghargai, dan kepengecutan dengan maksud menikmati hubungan dengan orang lain sehingga terpenuhi kebutuhan afeksi-seksualitas (meskipun tidak harus terjadi hubungan sebadan).
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Rabu, 09 November 2011
Affairs are loaded with romanticism, morality, mythology, and intense emotions. They're not really about sex, but about pain and fear and the desire to feel alive. They're also about betrayal. Most people enter marriage believing they would never have an affair. A great many of them have one or more affairs. Before you can decide what to do with the affair in your life you need to know what it means. These are the different types of affairs:
Affair Conflict Avoiders are nice ?? they're terrified to be anything but nice, for
Do you feel that your marriage isn’t what it used to be, and your spouse doesn’t seem to share your concerns? You want to save your marriage from ending, but it seems that you’re the only one who cares?
After a major blow to your shared commitment, like an emotional affair or one of the partners having actually cheated with a physical relationship, it is very common for people to lose hope in ever surviving the affair. Yet if you really love your partner you need to fight for your marriage, even if you’re doing it alone.
First, be very sure that you want to do this. Letting go is always easier than trying to save your marriage, but so many realize after the separation, that they might have committed the biggest mistake of their life by not sticking around to find out if your love could have been re-built and restored.
Don’t be discouraged by the lack of interest your spouse may be showing towards your efforts, stay strong, only time will know which one of you was right. If your significant other thinks that your marriage isn’t worth saving, it may be just because he/she is angry or disappointed right now