Building trust once infidelity has occurred takes
much time and effort. However, if both partners are willing to be open
and completely honest the marriage has the potential of reaching new
levels of satisfaction. In order for this to happen both individuals
must be completely honest with each other. This requires NO secrets.
Secrets in any form can destroy the relationship especially after the
affair. Trust isn't built in a day, it is built one true statement after
another.
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